They already had a kid so that chart is way outdated.
... she wants... another
So yeah, it's more like forced labor now :medalofhonor:
Starting over sounds scary, TBH, but even worse is the thought that she'll be hitting the teen years when you're in your 50's!
And how the f#$% are you just 37? I thought all of us long-time members had crossed the 40-threshold...